Very healthy fit young man struggling with erections and libido?
So ive been looking for a solution for a while and i thought id mine as well throw it out there and see if anyone has any helpful advice or guidance.
My problem is i’ve been struggling with achieving full 100% hard on erections like i use to get and this problem started probably a little over 5 months ago roughly and i believe has become gradually worse over the 5 months.
A little history. I’m 21 years old. Physically in great shape (not boasting). Eat healthy and properly. I’m 6′ 4″ 225, used to be a college football player. Had a couple bulging discs in lower back that are still healing. I Use to have a ridiculous high sex and would get erections just lookin at chicks and sittin in class and the gym and I never had an issue getting or staying hard in a sexual encounter. I dated a girl for a couple years, sex was great, never struggled with achieving an erection we were really into each other than she broke it off for reasons still unbeknown to me. She broke my heart, no lie, and i definitely went into a little depression and i wasn’t the same for a while. Now before i met this girl, i hadn’t jacked off or masturbated in my whole life and when she broke up i started masturbating a few times a week cause i was still really horny and turned on. She was my first…..Now i know anxiety, depression, and stress can effect libido and the mind which can affect erections but it’s been almost two years now, im over it, ive had sex with other women since then, two to be exact, and im completely perplexed and confused out of my mind by this. Now i can add that i was pretty hard with the one girl but not 100%, and i wasn’t with the other, not even 70%, and couldnt even finish even tho she still enjoyed it. Ever since this break up though i havent had the same sex drive as i did before, or even before meeting that girl i dated. I mean i wasn’t a sex maniac or nothin but i was definitely turned on all the time by just seeing girls, dancing with them, and just imagining them.
I’ve been to a urologist, two actually, and they too can’t seem to understand the issue. The one said i had a prostate infection which i took antibiotics for, which seemed to help but not 100% better. The other gave me low miligram doses of Cialis which i tried but i didn’t really like cause it didnt feel natural and im not into that kinda thing. As of now, I am now retaking the antibiotics because he thinks it may still be infected which he said cause affect the nerves and urethra but i don’t feel like this is the solution. In terms of sex drive however, its still not close to being where it was. If i had to gage what percent my erections are at it would have to be about 60% and thats still if i was masturbating by myself or with a girl.
So my question is, whats the problem!? is it mental, physical, performance anxiety, or stress related? It’s really drivin me crazy cause i feel as if im doing everything right; eating, working out, seeing a counselor (psychiatrist). Literally a year and a half ago i never thought for a second that erectile dysfunction and these type of issues would ever ever be a problem and now i feel as if ill never get them back. So if anyone has any helpful advice or knowledge or guidance i would be truly greatful and i appreciate you even taking a look at this. Thank you and god bless.
Also i had blood tests done and they said there wasn’t anything wrong with my testosterone or nothing. I lift about 4-5 days a week.
Do you use porn? If so, that could be the cause – http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/
on: 16th February 13